Completely unconnected thoughts
Moving commences this weekend, so why haven't I started packing? Ever have so much to do that the very idea of starting makes you tired, that's where I am. Tomorrow, tomorrow I will buy some plastic bins for the stuff I plan to leave stored a while and start packing it.
I talked to another friend tonight who says her M/s relationship was abusive. I think it can be nearly impossible from the outside to say because some of what we do anyone would call abusive so the question becomes the experience of the people in the relationship. My question though is can only one person say it was and that makes it so? What if one person simply sees it as the way that type of dynamic is run while the other sees it as too controlling and cruel then who is right?
It's that kind of conundrum that makes M/s so touchy because no matter which side you are on the potential to be hurt is huge. But the rewards in my opinion at least, are totally worth it.
I talked to another friend tonight who says her M/s relationship was abusive. I think it can be nearly impossible from the outside to say because some of what we do anyone would call abusive so the question becomes the experience of the people in the relationship. My question though is can only one person say it was and that makes it so? What if one person simply sees it as the way that type of dynamic is run while the other sees it as too controlling and cruel then who is right?
It's that kind of conundrum that makes M/s so touchy because no matter which side you are on the potential to be hurt is huge. But the rewards in my opinion at least, are totally worth it.
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