Same sex encounters for master, yay or nay?
I get a kick out of fet discussions. It's a good thing no one can actually see me rolling my eyes over some of the stuff I read. Today the winner of the eye roll was a post about whether or not a slave would perform sexually with someone of the same sex if ordered assuming said slave is straight.
While I expected some people to say no or my master would never ask that of me, I did not expect the several comments that contained a fair amount of vitriol. Ok it's not your thing I get that but seriously saying someone would have to put a gun to your head or stating that you'd barf on the other person seems a wee bit extreme. Of course there was also someone who called a master an idiot if he forced sex. Sex with a girl isn't my thing either but I would and have done it at Das' behest. While I can't say I was in the throes of passion I had an ok time and made sure the person I was with enjoyed herself.
The person who said she'd barf made me think about how negatively we as a society have come to view women's genitals. It's not enough to say "i'm not attracted to women sexually" but to seriously say it would make you ill to be up close and personal with girly bits, well that says something that to me has nothing to do with the M/s aspects of it. Makes me wonder if this person enjoys being gone down on and if so how do they reconcile such distaste at the thought of them doing something that they want someone to do for them.
In groups dedicated to M/s I find these kinds of attitudes odd frankly. Of course he can order me to do shit I don't like. On my side I do the best I can to fulfill it. I might even think evil thoughts about him (or even at him) at the time but my desire to be pleasing and obedient tends to overcome my desire to not do something I don't want to do. Most of the time anyway. There are times that I comply but with a marked lack of enthusiasm, what can I say I'm a work in progress. :) I am glad though that he hasn't stopped asking me to do things I'm not in the mood for/dislike. Something about the very fact that he will push me that way feels good. Maybe I'm kinda warped.
While I expected some people to say no or my master would never ask that of me, I did not expect the several comments that contained a fair amount of vitriol. Ok it's not your thing I get that but seriously saying someone would have to put a gun to your head or stating that you'd barf on the other person seems a wee bit extreme. Of course there was also someone who called a master an idiot if he forced sex. Sex with a girl isn't my thing either but I would and have done it at Das' behest. While I can't say I was in the throes of passion I had an ok time and made sure the person I was with enjoyed herself.
The person who said she'd barf made me think about how negatively we as a society have come to view women's genitals. It's not enough to say "i'm not attracted to women sexually" but to seriously say it would make you ill to be up close and personal with girly bits, well that says something that to me has nothing to do with the M/s aspects of it. Makes me wonder if this person enjoys being gone down on and if so how do they reconcile such distaste at the thought of them doing something that they want someone to do for them.
In groups dedicated to M/s I find these kinds of attitudes odd frankly. Of course he can order me to do shit I don't like. On my side I do the best I can to fulfill it. I might even think evil thoughts about him (or even at him) at the time but my desire to be pleasing and obedient tends to overcome my desire to not do something I don't want to do. Most of the time anyway. There are times that I comply but with a marked lack of enthusiasm, what can I say I'm a work in progress. :) I am glad though that he hasn't stopped asking me to do things I'm not in the mood for/dislike. Something about the very fact that he will push me that way feels good. Maybe I'm kinda warped.
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