Just thoughts

On FB someone posted the question of when women first start having men notice them sexually. I was curious so I read through around sixty comments, by the time I was finished something struck me. A large number of the women who responded also added in that they had bold, were tall for their age, went through early puberty in and of itself that info wasn't interesting to me, however what did catch my attention was that even though the question only asked for an age, so many people gave the age along with a provision. I doubt anyone was doing it intentionally but it felt like they were giving the men an excuse. While it's hard to fathom a pre pubescent kid envoking an erotic reaction from an adult the fact that the child had some attributes of an adult, even a young one made it if not ok then at least understandable.

It occurs to me that while we spend a lot of time both critiqueing and criticing our society we aren't always aware of we ourself acting in accordance with the same societal issues we disdain.