Sunday Stuff and Sexiness
With night falling earlier these days I've been crazy sleepy. I looked at the sky this evening and swore it was around nine, it was 5:30, so much night to go. The upside of this is it feels like I have gobs of time with my honey.
I just finished a long series that revolves around security personnel who are also doms. It was intriguing and amusing but man I might have sprained an eye muscle from all the eye rolling I was doing.
It strikes me as odd that all the guys (around 10) wanted a submissive woman but only in the bedroom whereas as they were take charge alpha types in all walks of their lives. They all seemed to really like brats too. That's a thing I never got.
There was a serious underrepresentation of the type of submissives who were quiet and enjoyed having a domly type all the time. I can't say it wasn't a well written story because it was, it was just a bit heavy handed on the "sub has all the power" message. Although in their defence there was references made to other styles, fleeting references but they were there and there was even a fairly heavy sadist in one book. Whoo hoo, I thought I was going to be stuck with the polite I like to spank a little ass then fuck types.
And while I'm discussing these books can someone explain to me how reasonable it is that all the men are tall and buff and all the women are various styles of thick? Apparently subs can come in a variety of body types but doms must be supermodel bodybuilder worthy. I know it's fantasy but come on. I know I like my men a bit heavier than norm, a man who looks solid but not like he's going to spend more time in the gym than with me. Maybe I'm just missing the gene that drools over cut abs.
I have wondered if my reading more of these types of books is my substitution for not having a kink community anymore. One does need to get needs met after all. There is an older man at my church who grins everytime he looks at my collar so maybe the kinksters aren't so much nonexistent as well hidden in my neck of the woods. I guess only time will tell.
Next sunday I get formally introduced to the church as an initiate or something like that. It's scary because I have no idea if we will have to stand at the front of the church or answer questions or what. The downside of most of my friends not being theist is no one really gives a crap, lol. In fact most are at least mildly confused by my desire to become a confirmed catholic. No one has been mean about it though, except my dad but seriously that just to be expected. I'm excited by this journey so yay me. At least no one in RCIA class has made an issue of my collar or cuff. Now to hope my luck holds...
I just finished a long series that revolves around security personnel who are also doms. It was intriguing and amusing but man I might have sprained an eye muscle from all the eye rolling I was doing.
It strikes me as odd that all the guys (around 10) wanted a submissive woman but only in the bedroom whereas as they were take charge alpha types in all walks of their lives. They all seemed to really like brats too. That's a thing I never got.
There was a serious underrepresentation of the type of submissives who were quiet and enjoyed having a domly type all the time. I can't say it wasn't a well written story because it was, it was just a bit heavy handed on the "sub has all the power" message. Although in their defence there was references made to other styles, fleeting references but they were there and there was even a fairly heavy sadist in one book. Whoo hoo, I thought I was going to be stuck with the polite I like to spank a little ass then fuck types.
And while I'm discussing these books can someone explain to me how reasonable it is that all the men are tall and buff and all the women are various styles of thick? Apparently subs can come in a variety of body types but doms must be supermodel bodybuilder worthy. I know it's fantasy but come on. I know I like my men a bit heavier than norm, a man who looks solid but not like he's going to spend more time in the gym than with me. Maybe I'm just missing the gene that drools over cut abs.
I have wondered if my reading more of these types of books is my substitution for not having a kink community anymore. One does need to get needs met after all. There is an older man at my church who grins everytime he looks at my collar so maybe the kinksters aren't so much nonexistent as well hidden in my neck of the woods. I guess only time will tell.
Next sunday I get formally introduced to the church as an initiate or something like that. It's scary because I have no idea if we will have to stand at the front of the church or answer questions or what. The downside of most of my friends not being theist is no one really gives a crap, lol. In fact most are at least mildly confused by my desire to become a confirmed catholic. No one has been mean about it though, except my dad but seriously that just to be expected. I'm excited by this journey so yay me. At least no one in RCIA class has made an issue of my collar or cuff. Now to hope my luck holds...
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