Weird Problems
Talk about odd problems, i've run into an issue convincing an older man I have no desire or intention of becoming his mistress. At first I didn't take him too seriously after all we'd never met in person, he's a friend of a friend. Now he's constantly calling filling up my voice mailbox and when I do talk to him he always finds a way to tell me that he wants me with him, in another country. Not cool. I've been reluctant to ask Das to step in but I think that will have to be the next thing.
I can see so clearly that this is where in days long past I would have given in because I wanted to not upset anyone and I had no idea how to gracefully refuse and have it honored. So glad I can see growth and that I now have someone in my life who takes over that bullshit when I'm overwhelmed.
In other news life is going good. It's getting nippy, not that I can complain since I do live in Canada and Das is letting me buy clothes, again. I've lost just enough weight to have all my pants sliding off, again. I really wish my body would find a weight it likes and stay there, sheesh. I could have probably put both my kids through college with all the wardrobes I've had to be due to unintentional weight shifts.
Tomorrow we are taking the muttiness rotteness' to go be social with other dogs. I think they've gotten a bit too packish and they need outside stimulation. Goodness knows I don't have the wherewithal to run them ragged. A busy day usually ends up with me lying on the couch looking drugged while they bounce around waiting eagerly for the next installment of rotten mutt frisbee. A neighbor who has several good sized dogs is going to show us the trail he walks his through so we can get an idea of how to create one behind our house since there is just woods and tall grass back there. Anything to keep Molloy from running straight down the street.
It's still early but I'm zonked. Now Das and I shall have our nightly tea and go to bed, maybe not to sleep just yet though ;)
I can see so clearly that this is where in days long past I would have given in because I wanted to not upset anyone and I had no idea how to gracefully refuse and have it honored. So glad I can see growth and that I now have someone in my life who takes over that bullshit when I'm overwhelmed.
In other news life is going good. It's getting nippy, not that I can complain since I do live in Canada and Das is letting me buy clothes, again. I've lost just enough weight to have all my pants sliding off, again. I really wish my body would find a weight it likes and stay there, sheesh. I could have probably put both my kids through college with all the wardrobes I've had to be due to unintentional weight shifts.
Tomorrow we are taking the muttiness rotteness' to go be social with other dogs. I think they've gotten a bit too packish and they need outside stimulation. Goodness knows I don't have the wherewithal to run them ragged. A busy day usually ends up with me lying on the couch looking drugged while they bounce around waiting eagerly for the next installment of rotten mutt frisbee. A neighbor who has several good sized dogs is going to show us the trail he walks his through so we can get an idea of how to create one behind our house since there is just woods and tall grass back there. Anything to keep Molloy from running straight down the street.
It's still early but I'm zonked. Now Das and I shall have our nightly tea and go to bed, maybe not to sleep just yet though ;)
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