The weekend was a blast, music festivals, brunch with the most decadent french toast ever (I even ate it all!) Shopping, walking downtown and going to the lake shore. Today has been nice and chill thankfully.
Last night we went to a coffee tasting. Now let it be known that I categorically do not like the taste of coffee but Das does so there you have it. I drank tiny cup after tiny cup of heavily creamed/sugared coffee trying to discern roundness, smokey aftertones, citrus hints and whatnot. One cup tasted woodsie to me but that was about all I got and no one else knew what I was talking about so I'm going to have to say that my skills as a coffee taster are sorely lacking. It was a fun event though, lots of laughing and chatting about all types of stuff. In fact one might have suspected the coffee had been spiked with something alcoholic if one was simply observing the flushed cheeks and cheery demeanor of the participants. I got the opposite of buzzed though. Each cup brought me closer to falling over in my chair. By the time we left which really wasn't very late at all, I could barely be upright. I walked into the house, accompanied Das out for a smoke, hit the bathroom and th...
Apperently the club isn't just an American thing. I was just sitting chatting and minding my business when a flow of older black women walked by all saying hello and good to see you and see you later. The person I was speaking to asked me when I had met them and I laughed and told her that I had never seen any of them before. Das explained to her that this is a pretty common occurrence for me. He gets tickled whenever he witnesses it. I guess some things aren't country specific.
I love prompts they get me thinking in ways I might not have been before. So I'm a slave prompt it asked if you have an insecurities and if so do they impact your relationship. Yes and yes. I'm a mass of weird but I think it's safe to say my biggest insecurity is abandonment. Not even the out and out someone left but the no longer being high on someone list of importance and see them all giddy and accommodating over someone new. This is why I can't be poly. I've got none of that compression going on. I want my partner to be happy I simply want that happiness to be with me to the exclusion of others. I realize that by choosing to be a slave I've put myself in the position for the possibility of that boundary being pushed. In fact since Das was partnered when we got together it was a given that at least some of the time she would come before me. I recall an incident where I was pouring about not getting the level of attention I wanted because they were having a m...
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