Play & Sex

It's funny that play is most often associated with floggers, canes, fire... the use of implements. Things that put a separation between the players. What I have found are the most intense aspect of playing is talking & touching, even on the occasions we utilize toys it's the things he says and the fact that he never stops touching me, there is always some skin to skin contact and that takes things up several notches. Most of the time we don't even have anything but our bodies since sex with talking is our most common form of playing. It's amazing how much can be conveyed with whispers and bodily manipulation. I've discovered that pleasure can be just as effective as pain in reinforcing our dynamic. People have asked me if we play and I've always had trouble answering because every time we have sex it's an intense session but I know that's not what people generally mean so I usually just smile.