Hmmmmm

I participated in the oddest conversation on a website that caters to submissive women & dominant men. Someone asked about the feasibility of combining slavery with D/bg and if anyone had done it with success. Although the thread was a few days old I decided to chime in as that is how we identify and it's been working well for us. I explained why I felt like a baby girl including the fact that I do not identify as a little, in fact it was probably the best I have ever articulated what baby girlness feels like for me. Like most things I don't expect that everyone has the same experiences or even labels the same ones in the same way but I was still a bit surprised at the vehemence in arguing not against just the idea of babygirl slaves but against the naming of my own experience in a way that resonated with me.

Disagreements in ideology aren't a huge deal to me even if I'm convinced that the people disagreeing with me are obviously wrong. Disagreeing with someone's actual experience is something that rubs me the wrong way though whether it's done to me or someone else. It's not something I have learned how to effectively rebut in all circumstances but I'm working on it.