Tickled

It's rather amusing to realize how some of the stuff we do sounds to someone else even someone kinky. I was talking to a friend today and of course we talked about sex and play. In the spirit of sharing I mentioned some of the things we've done that meld sex and play. It made me giggle that she was like "that's gross" not that I don't think some of it was gross myself but for me it's like, yea it's gross which is part of why it's hot. He likes to see me squirm and I like that he can do stuff that I don't like or worse yet make me do stuff I don't like. I guess it makes sense to me but looking at it from someone else's perspective it's just icky not hot, lol. Wonder exactly when I crossed into taking some stuff for granted that isn't necessarily everyday stuff to others? This could be why he looks at me like I've lost my mind when I say I'm not kinky.