guess what cocksucker...

Several years ago a friend read us an advice column in a pervy magazine in which the general premise of advice was "if you had dreams of being fucked up down and sideways day and night but your master decides he wants his dick sucked instead... guess what cocksucker."   This really resonated with with me because it brought home very succinctly the point that it is not about me. I signed up for this ride and he's driving so I need to shut my mouth (or open it as ordered) and do what I agreed to do.

This tends to be my first thought when I read various threads on fet also. In fact the phrase is often used even in non kink contexts in our house because it is wonderfully versatile. Whenever someone is bitching about something they agreed to do or is obligated to in some way Das and I tend to exchange looks and if we are alone "guess what cocksucker" falls from one or both of our lips in short order. It makes us laugh but it also gets across a very real feeling we have about the need for personal responsibility and accountability. If you say you are 'bout it 'bout then don't just talk a good game.